Dear Thelma

I’m 37 years old while having been married for a decade. My better half is years older than me personally. We now have a daughter that is eight-year-old.

I knew that he was active on online dating sites and was chatting with numerous girls when I met my husband. But he promised he’d stop after we got hitched. I happened to be okay with that.

But a year into our wedding, we realised he had been a lot more actively communicating with girls and sharing pictures. Whenever I discovered and confronted him about this, he said he had been simply chatting and never fulfilling these females actually, so just why ended up being we making a large hassle. We told him We would not tolerate that, in which he once again promised to quit.

All had been well until recently, whenever I discovered out he’s been at it again. Now, he could be telling these females he has an infant girl who he really loves quite definitely but that he’s divided from his wife. We additionally discovered which he happens to be visiting the thing I think are strange porn websites.

We have quit hope I can’t take it any longer that he will ever stop and. I know for some people, it could look like a harmless thing. They may ask why i will be overreacting. Nevertheless the means he writes for this one woman online and exactly just how he’s often so cool with me is just for the sake of being married and for someone to take care of him and the house towards me at home makes me wonder if the only reason he is sticking.

We scarcely talk any longer and then he claims he could be constantly busy. I just don’t recognize who else to keep in touch with relating to this.

Please Thelma, help me to. Have always been I Must Say I overreacting? – Hema

Dear Hema

The person you married is telling individuals you’re from the picture and then he gets the barefaced cheek to lie about it.